How would you feel knowing that over a million people have the same insecurities as you? You might never know who exactly because to know, you have to share your insecurities but what would we do when find somebody with the same insecurities as us? We all know that stretch marks is a huge thing for most girls but yet we criticize and judge them. Judging is a sign of weakness to make us forget about our insecurities by putting somebody else down. Anybody who don’t know your past has no say in your life or insecurities, because I am sure that most of them wouldn’t be able to go through what you went through that gave you those insecurities.
How Insecurities are Made
Our insecurities are made from past things that have been constantly said towards us. We value it and it becomes our reality, then we let it get to us and whatever compliment we get, we reject it rather than appreciate it that there are still some people who admire you. Some of our insecurities come from comparison of models’ body or anything that we wish we could have to what we currently have. Do something for you, compare how long they work to get what they want versus how long you work to get what they want/you want and tell me your answer.
How To Deal With Insecurities
Tell yourself everyday five good things about yourself even if it is the same thing. When somebody tries to bring you down then all the good things you said about yourself will automatically push out the negativity. Some can be true but people say it to hurt you for example; you are thick but somebody will call you fat and boom you insecure about your weight or you have ADHD or another disorder and those who are already beneath you will try to pull you under the water with them. If you are so call fat what do you think you have to do? Stop eating junk food or eat less of it and exercise, you will not see the results in the next few weeks or first few months so keep that in mind. Any insecurity that is changeable…CHANGE IT!!! And those that are not you will have to like it like your face(well I mean you can surgery but you were born different from others might as well embrace it). Write your insecurities down and ask yourself why is this my insecurity. Look at yourself a few minutes everyday and admire yourself, don’t wait for anybody to tell you that you are beautiful or smart or special. Remember this, you choose what your insecurities are not other people, they will try to influence you but you have to ask yourself why are they trying to make me feel bad about myself. Something I don’t understand if you know hurt or you’ve been through a lot of pain I thought you would never treat anybody like that because you don’t want others to feel what you felt.
I tried my best with insecurities I’m not or should I say doesn’t really bother me unless I let it or if I think about it there are a lot of other things that are more important to me and I’m not gonna let some of my insecurities get the better of me. People can throw bricks at you but its up to you to either throw it back or build yourself an empire and block those who tries to shame you about your looks or how you express yourself. Those who see the beauty in your so call ugly as you say that is somebody to treasure but just because they see the beauty doesn’t mean they will treat you nice or as you deserve. People can make you both good and bad but they can compliment you one minute and the next they curse you or lash you, that’s toxic and leave, if it hurts then you made the right decision it’s best it hurt now than later when it’s too late and it have those people for example me I does bother all my female friends about their forehead(that are very big) and I could do it to somebody else and not know I made them feel bad.(Sorry I know this was not fully relevant to the topic but I just got in the zone, hopefully it helps)
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